i need you to come to terms with the way white women have facilitated some of the most unspeakable violence upon black and brown and indigenous people, bodies, and community. often in the name of white womanhood. often in the name of freedom. often in the name of feminism.
i need you to understand that you killed Emmitt Till. i need you to think about all of the black men and boys that have been murdered because either you accused them or your men took it upon themselves to defend *your* honor. i need you to look at pictures of lynched bodies and think about what role you played in it.
i need you to know the names of the women raped by U.S. military in countries we invaded, in part because feminists said we needed to save the women and/or children and supported the various invasions.
i need you to know that those reproductive rights you all are up in arms about were created via the destruction and maiming of black and brown bodies. i need you to know who Anarcha, Lucy, and Betsy are, and what was done to them. i need you to know the names of the Puerto Rican women who were lied to and who died so that The Pill could bring you your precious sexual liberation. i need you to know the central role white women played in sterilization programs that targeted black women, poor women, anyone they deemed too “feeble” to procreate. i need you to think about why more big name feminist organizations are up in arms about the most recent kick up about contraception than about sterilized black women getting compensated for what was done to them.
i need you to understand that at this point, it’s not about privilege. it’s not about you being able to find products that work with your hair no matter where you go. it’s about people’s lives. it’s about WOC lives and a centuries old disregard white women have shown for them. it’s about that fact that white women have been an active agent in the destruction of our communities, our histories, and our families. for centuries.
and WOC don’t owe you a damn thing. not. one. thing.
so get that through your skulls then maybe we can work together. maybe.
- Biologically male
- Male at birth
- Any transmisogynistic slur
- XY-chromosomed or anything referring to chromosomes
Terms you should use:
- Coercively Assigned Male At Birth (CAMAB)
Hi there, cis commenters. I am a ‘real trans person’ and let me tell you somethin’.
Trans people do sometimes call themselves these words, and others (like some of you have stated, ftm and mtf are pretty common)
but just because WE call ourselves those things doesn’t mean YOU get to
and just because SOME of us call ourselves those words doesn’t mean that ALL of us do
Unless you know otherwise, please use the terms MAAB/FAAB (male assigned at birth/female assigned at birth) or CAMAB/CAFAB (coercively assigned male at birth, coercively assigned female at birth)
Okay, thanks, by now.
Right. There are plenty of trans* people who like the MTF/FTM terms, but I hate being called FTM.
Additionally, don’t use terms like “biologically male/female” or “male/female-bodied” to describe cis people. Just say “cis male/female.” Doing otherwise not only degenders, but also dehumanizes trans people.
Signal boost because I’ve been doing it wrong (I’ve used MTF/FTM instead of CAMAB/CAFAB); I apologize and shall do better in the future.